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So we’re almost at the end of 2012. I don’t know about you, but this year seems to be over nearly as soon as it began! I know some will tell me that’s a sign of getting old, but I refuse to believe that, as I think it’s simply been because there’s been so much going on in my life this year…again.

emergency-signIt’s been another tough year for me:

  • Supporting my hubby as his health has deteriorated
  • Supporting my Mum for the first half of the year while she struggled to continue to look after and care for my Dad at home as his dementia worsened
  • Supporting Mum in the second half of the year as Dad first of all was in hospital for over 10 weeks and then moved into a local nursing home
  • Visiting my aunt who has been living in a care home for over 2 years and who reached the grand age of 90 in October
  • Various trips to A&E with my hubby , my Dad and my aunt – and of course they were all long waits, and sometimes during the night
  • Hubby’s retirement – which looking back on things was the best thing he could have done given how his health has deteriorated since he finished working
  • Several family bereavements
  • On-going health issues of my own

In amongst all that I’ve managed to keep working full-time, and unbelievably haven’t been off sick all year! Not quite sure how I managed that as there were some days when my pain levels were so severe I really don’t know how I managed to get through the day at work, but obviously I managed it somehow!

Anyway, enough about my year. I hope that whatever this year has brought you, good or bad, you will have made the most of your time with your friends and family as we never know what tomorrow will bring. I pray that you may have felt God‘s blessings on you during this year, and as we look ahead to 2013 you may go forward with confidence that whatever situations you have to deal with, God is by your side not just during this Christmas season, but all year-long.

All Year Long by Michael W Smith

This Christmas season I wish you joy
The wonder in every girl and boy
I  wish you gladness, the warmth and cheer
Of good friends and family gathered near

May children’s laughter in falling snow
Rekindle those  sweet scenes from long ago
May every carol, each candle bright
Remind  you why angels sang that night

If trouble finds you, this is my  prayer
May peace come into your hearts and make you strong
 And I wish you luck, the kind to last all year-long

I don’t know about you, but over the last couple of weeks, particularly the week leading up to Christmas, the shops were mobbed but everyone seemed happy to speak to the person next to them in the queues, even although they’d never seen that person before, and probably likely to never see them again.

Funny that, because every other week of the year you go shopping, no-one is interested in speaking to you unless it’s to give abuse or complain about something. Isn’t it funny how the spirit of Christmas seems to make everyone nicer to each other.

Wouldn’t it be good if that Christmas spirit of friendliness towards others could remain all year round, not just for the few days of Christmas.

Presents

Posted: December 27, 2012 in birthday, Christmas, family, friendship, holiday, life, love, music, pray, religion
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Christmas presents piled underneath a christmas tree.Did you get lots of lovely presents for Christmas? Did u get exactly what you wanted?

I hope that whatever you got from Santa and your family and friends, it was just what you wanted, and that any unexpected surprises where great ones.

I certainly got lots of lovely presents, including some unexpected items, but all were things I’ll be able to make good use of, so thank you to all of you who sent me gifts – I hope you liked your gifts as much as I liked mine!

Christmas has been hugely commercialized over the years, and for me, if anything it has gone too far now. How can it be ok to call this “holiday time” rather than “Christmas time” when if there had never been a Christ there would be no holiday?

So this Christmas time, I pray that not only have you received lots of lovely Christmas presents, you have also received the presence of God in your life and in your home too. I pray that Christ may not just be part of your Christmas this year, but also every day of your life.

Yesterday all over the world, we celebrated Christmas – I hope you had a fantastic time with your friends and family and got lots of lovely presents.

I hope you weren’t too busy yesterday to take just a few minutes to thank God for sending Perfect Love to earth in the form of Jesus.

Those of you who have children or who have friends who have children, will understand how the birth of a child can be described as the visual representation of perfect love and innocence. Mary gave birth to perfect love when she had Jesus and what a difference He made in this world!

Making a difference in this world is not just something Jesus can do, it’s something every one of can achieve if we let God help us. After all we were all a new-born baby at one time, and all were the image of perfect love. Let’s share the perfect love of Jesus throughout the world today and every day.

 

 

What better way to start my Christmas blog post of than by saying…Hallelujah, the Light Has Come!

Hallelujah We’ve been found
A Child is born to save us now, Jesus! Hallelujah Light has come!
A Savior who will set us free
A Promise for those who believe

I hope you enjoyed that wonderful reminder from Barlowgirl of what Christmas is really all about.

 

Yes, I hope you have had, and are continuing to have, an excellent Christmas Day. I hope you have received some wonderful presents and gifts and enjoyed spending time with your family and friends. But I also hope you have taken some time to remember that today we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, the light of the world.

I hope and pray that in the coming days and months we might each be able to spread God‘s message that the light of the world is amongst us.

Merry-Christmas

Baby Jesus, do you know you’ll die for all our sins?
Don’t be afraid, for in 3 days, you will rise again. Cause you will rise again.

Yes it’s Christmas time and yes at this time of the year we are celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ the Son of God. However let’s not forget exactly what this child, Jesus Christ did for us…He died for us all so that we could be forgiven!

Imagine you were told your one and only son had to die a horrible death just so everyone in the world present and future would be forgiven of their sins. I’m sure you wouldn’t want your son to die, and you’d try all you could to stop him having to die just because others were sinners.

And that’s what makes God so immense and worthy of our praise – Despite His love for His one and only son, He was willing to sacrifice His son just for you and me. What a sacrifice! What a God!

Why am I so scared of all spiders…big or small!

Why do we have mental blocks about how to spell words we use every day?

Why are some illness so cruel?

Isn’t it funny how it’s always the days you forget your umbrella, that it rains the hardest?

Why do some people not seem to have an “indoor” voice…or at least one that they use!

Why do we Scots always think that this tournament might just be the one our football team will do well at…will we never learn!

Why does my cat always know when I’m getting food for him, regardless of where he is or what he’s doing!

Why do some people feel it is their duty to share with you little thing they achieve during their working day?

Why do all the light bulbs in one room always blow on the same day?

Why is it so hard to find a 90th birthday card?

 

One of the saddest things I ever heard was the very first time, probably just over a year ago, when my Dad asked me who I was.

For those of you who’ve been following my blog for a while, you’ll know that my Dad suffers from vascular dementia, and has over the space of the last couple of years got progressively worse.

It was heart wrenching the first few times when Dad asked who I was, and although it’s still very sad when he asks either me or Mum who I am, I am getting used to it as I know it’s simply part of this rotten disease that he’s suffering from and nothing else.

Well today is my Dad’s 85th birthday, a day where we should be rejoicing in the fact that he’s still with us. Unfortunately though it’s not such a happy occasion as Dad doesn’t remember it’s his birthday let alone what age he is. Despite Dad not knowing it’s his birthday, we did still get him a card and a present, as although he doesn’t know it’s his birthday, we do!  The sad thing is Dad didn’t understand why we were giving him anything or even what he was supposed to do with the card and present, so Mum ended up having to help him open both.

Dementia is a horrible illness, it’s indiscriminate in who it affects, but it’s affects are life changing not only for the sufferer but their family as well.

I pray that all affected directly by dementia receive the love and support they required to cope with this debilitating illness.

Just a few months ago we celebrated the birth of Jesus, and then in the last couple of weeks, we celebrated Christ‘s death and His resurrection, but where do we go from here?

Yes, Christmas and Easter are the two most important events in the Christian calendar but that doesn’t mean that when it’s not Christmas or Easter we should not celebrate Christ. In fact the complete opposite it true, it because of Christmas and Easter that we should be celebrating Christ’s life, and His message, throughout the whole year.

So that’s Christmas over…the presents have all been opened the food prepared and eaten…so what now?

In the last couple of weeks leading up to Christmas I’ve talked about Christmas, and what Christmas is really all about…Christ. So now that Christmas is over does that mean we should just forget about Christ until next Christmas?

Definitely not!

Christmas is the time of year when we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ and the impact His time on earth had on the people He came into contact with as well as the millions that have become believers in God since then too.

Celebrating Christ’s birth is just the start of the celebrations, as there’s so much more that Christ did during His time on earth that we must celebrate. So in celebrating Christ’s birth, this should just be the start of a long celebration of Christ and all that can be achieved by becoming a believer in God.

Why not make this Christmas season the start of a new and exciting life for you, celebrating Christ’s life and learning more about His love for each one of us.