Archive for the ‘dementia’ Category

Welcome to 2012! I hope it’s a guid’un for you and yours. Personally I’m quite pleased to see the back of 2011, as it wasn’t the best year for me or my family. So what about 2012, what am I hoping to achieve this year? I say “what am I hoping to achieve this year” [...]

So we’re just about at the end of another year. So how’s 2011 been for you? For me 2011 has been one which I probably would rather forget. So how would I sum up my year… A Rotten Start To 2011 2011 started well, as hubby and me did our usual New Year’s Day thing and [...]

Now that Christmas is past and many folk are back at work, I’d like you to review your Christmas. For each of the following rate it between 0 and 5, 0 being the lowest score and 5 being the best score: How much did you enjoy Christmas Day? Did you like your Christmas presents? Did [...]

Well that’s us at Sunday night again, so where has this last week gone?! This time last week, Dad wasn’t too well, and we were looking forward with trepidation and relief that come the Monday, Dad was going into a care home for a week’s respite are so Mum could get a well-earned rest. This must [...]

What a day! It’s been a day full of lots of different emotions. It’s been a day Mum has been looking forward to ever since she agreed that she wanted Dad to go into a care home for a week’s respite care. It’s been a day that’s been a long time coming, and one which [...]

Today I would simply like to ask you, if you are a praying kind of person, to pray for my Mum and Dad, particularly tomorrow and during the week ahead. Why? As I’ve mentioned before my Dad has vascular dementia and over the couple of years as very rapidly declined, so much so that he now [...]

The last couple of days I’ve spoken about patience, and the fact that we all need patience particularly during the tough times of life (see Be Patient and In Need of Patience). As many of you will know, my Dad has vascular dementia and over the last year and a half his condition has greatly [...]

Well I don’t know about you, but my week has been rotten! Between running around after hubby, helping Mum, having a problem person to cope with at work, not feeling to great and in a lot of pain and generally feeling alone and unwanted at times, it really hasn’t been one of my most enjoyable [...]

Yesterday in Invisible Pain I spoke about how many people suffer silently from physical pain, every day. Today I want to consider those suffering other pain, emotional pain. How many times have you heard someone say: Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting  some kind of battle. Many times I’ve been felt totally [...]

A few days ago on Facebook a few of my friends posted the following on their status: YOU DON’T LOOK SICK!!! No I don’t. It’s hard to explain to someone when they have no clue. It’s a daily struggle feeling sick on the inside while you look fine on the outside. Please put this as your [...]