And never let ugly or hateful words come from your mouth, but instead let your words become beautiful gifts that encourage others; do this by speaking words of grace to help them. ~ Ephesians 4:29 (TPT)
Have you noticed how some people bring out the worst in you, no matter what they say or do?
No matter how annoyed or upset we are, we should always be in control of what we say or do. It can take a lot to stay calm and collected when those around you are shouting, angry or upsetting you. However when we stay calm and focused, we stay realistic, and so we’re then able to offer helpful advice to those around us.
Be patient, be calm, and stay focused on God, because He can give you the words you need in all situations to give helpful advice and encouragement to others.