Posts Tagged ‘judge’

We are all individuals. We are all unique. We all have different experiences. We all experience emotions when we go through life, however the emotions we feel in each circumstance are individual to us. Therefore just because you know how you feel when you experience a particular situation, doesn’t mean that is how others feel.

Remember we are unique, no-one else know how we truly feel, so don’t ever think you know exactly how someone else feels, unless they tell you!

You see your neighbours out in their garden, or in the street. You see your work colleagues in the office. You see your friends in your house or theirs. But do you really know any of them?

We can all be very judgemental of others at times simply because of what we see when we look at them. However what we see of people in public is often just a small part of them, so remember what you see of someone is probably not the “real” person.

Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who love beyond all faults, cry behind closed doors and fight battles that nobody knows about. ~ Nicky Gumbel

Struggles in life can be hard at the time, but they definitely make us stronger people, and make us the people we are today. Don’t judge someone by what you see, as they may be fighting a battle behind closed doors that you know nothing about.

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Do you think there will ever be a time again when we can feel safe and secure in this world? Sadly I’m not sure there will ever be.

All we hear about these days is physical or emotional violence against someone or something all around the world. Are we living in the beginning of ‘end times’?

The bible tells us of many signs of end times, and the persecution of Christians around the world, is just one such sign. Personally it scares me that we may be living in end times, but at the same time it’s also quite exciting. Exciting because I believe Jesus is coming again, and that means He will judge each of us based on how we’ve lived our lives.

So at the end of time, if Jesus will judge each of us, isn’t it the case that we don’t have to judge any of our fellow human beings, no matter how what they may have done in their life.

 

It’s down to us as Christians to remind the world that Jesus loves all of us unconditionally, and spread his message of love and hope. God wants us to live in peace so let us each show love, compassion and mercy to everyone.

Have faith

Posted: February 8, 2017 in faith, Health, life, quotes, Relationships, religion
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How strong is your faith?

Whatever and whoever we face in life, God will be there to help you through.

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Have faith!

We can all be very judgemental of others at times simply because of what we see when we look at them. However what we see of people in public is often just a small part of them, so remember what you see of someone is probably not the “real” person.

Sometimes the strongest people are the ones who love beyond all faults, cry behind closed doors and fight battles that nobody knows about. ~ Nicky Gumbel

Struggles in life can be hard at the time, but they definitely make us stronger people, and make us the person we are today. Don’t judge someone by what you see, as they may be fighting some battles in private, behind closed doors.

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We all say we’ve no time, or we’re too busy, but are we too busy for everything?

If you judge people, you have no time to love them. ~ Mother Teresa

I’m sure we’re all guilty of judging others sometimes, even if we’re doing it subconsciously, but are we guilty of loving others subconsciously too?

Love of others, consciously or subconsciously, is what we need to find time for, so stop judging and start loving!

Have you ever had a day when it was a real struggle either physically or emotionally to get out of bed?

Have you ever had a day when it took ever ounce of inner strength you possessed to get yourself showered and dressed?

Have you ever had a day when you struggled to keep your public face on so no-one could see how you really felt?

So you’re not having a great day, you’ve struggled to get yourself our of bed, dressed and out into the big bad world and you find others are judging you based on what they see…devastating, and potentially just that one extra thing to make you wonder why you bother, to question if anyone would really care if you didn’t turn up, if you never turned up…

STOP! Read this:

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No right

Posted: March 26, 2015 in friendship, heart, life, quotes, Relationships, religion, Uncategorized
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I don’t know about you, but I’ve found myself being judged by other for things they may have heard from others, without attempting to speak to me about the situations from my perspective or how I felt.

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It can be easy to read the words in the above picture and acknowledge the truth in them, but they unfortunately don’t make it any easier when other judge you.

I have no answers on how to make it easier to cope with, but I can simply urge you, don’t let other’s judgements of you affect who you are, as the two most important people know the truth, you and God!

Have you ever wandered away from something and others have tried to convince you to go back to it?

When you’ve left something it can be difficult to want to go back, never mind actually go back, but why is that? Is it because we’re embarrassed to go, too stubborn to admit we should never have left, or simply too scared of what others might think of us if we return.

Thankfully, God isn’t like that, as no matter how long it is since we turned away from God, God will not judge us, He will simply welcome us back with open arms.

So if you’ve turned away from God, and are embarrassed or scared to ask Him for help again, don’t be because God loves you unconditionally yesterday, today and forever!

Come On Back To Me by Third Day

Come on back to me
Come on back to me
Come on back to me
Come on back to me

You’ve been hiding out for so long
I never understood why
Running far away from the truth
And all along chasing after lies

I have loved you from the beginning
Long before you were mine, yeah
And even though you’ve broken my heart
I’ll love you just the same
I’ll love you anyway

Never mind your worries
Never mind your fears
They can only take you far from me
When you feel there’s nowhere left for you to turn
I got all you want
And everything you need
Come on back to me

Do you believe in second chances
With a love that never fades
Put your faith in what you can’t see
Just put your hand in mine
I’ll show you the way

Never mind your worries
Never mind your fears
They can only take you far from me
When you feel there’s nowhere left for you to turn
I got all you want
And everything you need
Come on back to me

Come on back to me (3x)

Never mind your worries
Never mind your fears
They can only take you far from me
Oh when you feel there’s nowhere left for you to turn
I got all you want
And everything you need
Come on back to me
Come on back to me
Come on back to me
Come on back to me now

Come on back, come on back, come on back to me
Come on back, come on back, come on back to me now
Come on back to me

My Closest Friend
 
I place my hope in you
For you alone are Lord
There could never be another
I could ever love more
 
There’s no-one who comes closer
To you in my life
For you are my closest friend
In whom I can confide
 
And share my deepest longings
My hurts and my fears
Knowing you will understand
And wipe away my tears
 
Knowing I can come to you
Morning, noon or night
You will never turn me away
But give ear to my plight
 
And you will not condemn me
Nor judge what I say
For you are full of constant love
And listen when I pray
 
You love was such that you died
My soul you came to save
From certain eternal misery
Awaiting beyond the grave
 
But now in you I can be sure
Of eternity with you
Freed from pain and misery
With eternal joy too
 
by M.S.Lowndes

 

So who is “my closest friend”? It’s God!

You’ll see some of the statements in the above poem reflect some of the things I’ve been talking about over the last while. e.g. This poem talks about how my closest friend will not judge me…I spoke about not judging us in Don’t Judge Me; It talks about how eternity and how God will be with us always…I spoke about this in Prepare For The Future and also in other posts.

Who else can we rely on not to judge us but remain our friend forever?

God is my closest friend today and forever! Let Him be your closest friend too.

Befriended by Matt Redman sums up my relationship with God: