Posts Tagged ‘memory’

How are you at remembering people’s names?

How are you at remembering dates and times you attend events or functions?

How are you at remembering things in general, such as jokes or quotes?

I’m not very good at remembering any of things if I’m honest. Those of you who know me, will know that if I don’t write something down, the chances of me doing it are slim! Those of you who know me will also know that names aren’t my strong point either.

I’m always find it amazing when others are able to quote bible verse after bible verse without needing to look anything up. Maybe it’s just because I struggle to remember anything without writing it down or looking it up!

At the end of the day though, does it really matter whether we can quote word for word from the bible? The most important thing is surely that we live as God wants us to live!


Have you been given a lot of information about something you’re not interested in and thought to yourself, “that’s instantly forgettable”?

Have you ever thought the same about a person? Someone you meet, or have a conversation with that didn’t say or do anything that made then stand out for you, so didn’t make themselves someone you felt you needed to remember.

Being an instantly forgettable person can’t be easy, as no-one remembers you. Sometimes someone may remember a few words you said or something you did, but I guarantee no-one will remember it was you who said or did those things!

In God’s eyes, none of us are forgettable at all. He loves each one of us regardless of who we are, what we do or what we say.

If God takes the time to remember each and every one of us, surely we should be able to remember those we meet or converse with. Let’s make sure we look after everyone and never forget someone just because they maybe don’t have the same interests or views as ourselves.

Lets make sure we make everyone instantly memorable rather than instantly forgettable.

Word Association #45

Posted: August 12, 2017 in blogging, car, Food, language, train, weather, words
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I’ve done a few Word Associations with you over the last while, and today it’s time for another one. So as usual I’m going to throw some words at you, and I want you to note down the first word that comes into your mind when you read each word.

So here goes…

  1. Cold
  2. Photo
  3. Candle
  4. Handbag
  5. Tyrewords
  6. Can
  7. Jelly
  8. Ticket
  9. Carriage
  10. Farm

So how did you get on with those words? Did you find it easy? Did your answers surprise you or were they just as you expected?

Well here’s my responses to my questions:

  1. Heater
  2. Memories
  3. Birthday
  4. Choice
  5. Flat
  6. Drink
  7. Jam
  8. Expensive
  9. Train
  10. Tractor

I still believe that when we respond with the first words that come into our minds, our answers tell us a lot about our emotional state, and what’s important to us at that particular point in time.

Bearing all this in mind, review your answers, does my theory hold true?

By the way, if you want me to explain any of my answers, just ask!

We’re all only here on earth for a short time, but when we’re gone, will we be remembered?

@FamousWomen: One day, you’ll be just a memory for some people. Do your best to be a good one.

We all have people who have had an impact on our life, good and bad. Some of those people may have passed away, but we still think about them and the example they were to us and the knowledge they imparted to us.

I simply pray that I will continue to do my best in all I do, so that I am a good memory for others.

I must admit I always feel a bit guilty about the fact that I am not very good at remembering verses from scripture or where to find specific verses. However in my defence I’m not very good at remembering things in general, and that’s why as those of you who know me will know, I write down everything I have to do, otherwise I know I will forget!

I’m not quite sure why I feel guilty because I can’t remember verses of scripture, other than from a young age I always thought those who could quote verse after verse of scripture were very holy and Christian. Now thinking about that, I realise that was a rather naïve, as being a Christian isn’t about being able to quote scripture is it!

live scripture not remember it


I’m sure we’ve all done something wrong on a number of occasions. I’m also sure that n at least some of those occasions, as soon as we’ve done something we shouldn’t have done, we’ve wished we hadn’t done it. I’m equally sure that when those incidents have resulted in us hurting someone, a friend or family member, we’ve said sorry and asked for forgiveness.

Sadly though, as soon as the words or action has taken place, the damage has been done. We can’t erase painful words from someone’s memory, nor can a murderer bring someone back from the dead and erase the grief their loved ones feel.

God doesn’t make light of sin and the harm it causes, and proved this by sacrificing His son so that He could give us the forgiveness, mercy and love he desires us to have. Are we worthy of that sacrifice? Are you worthy of that sacrifice?


So tomorrow is February, and as the title of this blog post suggests, it’s a month I wish I could just miss out completely. To be honest it’s been a month that I haven’t looked forward to for a number of years now, but after last year, it’s now a month I just want to completely forget about.

Why does February make me feel like this?

Sad-memory21 years ago this February, my husband’s sister died – We weren’t married at the time. February would also have been her birthday, and this year  she would have been 50.

11 years ago this February my mother in law suffered her 2nd stroke and spent much of February that year in hospital before passing away on the 2nd March. February would also have been her birthday, and this year she would have been 80.

Last year my Dad was admitted to hospital on 4th January and on 1st February we were told there was nothing more they could do for Dad. On the 4th February Dad was transferred from hospital back to his nursing home on end of life care. He died several weeks later on 21st February and his funeral was on 27th February.

As you can see February holds lots of sad memories for me, and this year will be particularly difficult as it is the first anniversary of my Dad’s death. So if it’s possible, can I just miss out February this year please?


Are you afraid of the dark?

I’m definitely not afraid of the dark, however I am finding that when the darkness surrounds me when I’m lying in bed trying to sleep, it’s then my mind seems to want to do nothing but think about my Dad!

Don’t get me wrong it’s not that I don’t want to remember my Dad, because I will always remember him, but why every night when I go to bed? What makes it worse is that when I start thinking about Dad then, I get very emotional, get myself in a state and then can’t sleep!

So while I’ll not afraid of the dark, I don’t particularly look forward to lying in bed trying to sleep, as these days that seems to mean lots of tears and lack of sleep.


death of a loved oneIn the last couple of weeks since my Dad passed away, I’ve found myself saying a number of times, “The last time I was here/did this, Dad was here”. Some of those memories have been ones I’ve smiled at other have been ones where I’ve shed a tear because even in these memories Dad’s illness was taking hold of him and turning him into a shell of the person he used to be.

These are the memories that will remain with me forever, and I’m sure in the coming days and weeks, many more memories of my Dad will come flooding back to me.

The Dad I knew and loved left us a few years ago as his vascular dementia took over his life. That however hasn’t made it any easier to cope with the death of Dad, as although he was not the Dad I knew, physically, it still looked like him, even right to the end.

Memories are all I have of my Dad now, but my love for him will live on, forever.

I mentioned the other day in Managing Grief #1, that I would be doing a series of blog posts giving some ideas on how to manage grief.  Today it’s about remembering your loved one…

Just because your loved one is gone doesn’t mean you should try to remove any thought of their passing from your mind. It’s important to be realistic about your loss, and not try to hide from the fact that there is an empty space in your life that they once filled.

I’m not saying we should immortalise them and never move on with your life, simply that you need to give yourself time to grieve – That in turn leads to the question of the how long is appropriate for us to grieve. The answer to this questions in itself is unknown as we are all different and all cope with grief differently, so grieve for as long as you need to.

When your with family and friends, don’t be afraid to talk about your loved one by sharing your memories of them, because in doing so you are helping you, and in turn showing your family and friends that it is actually ok to speak about the person.

I hope none of this sounds cold and dismissive, it is not intended to be. I simply feel that it is worthwhile to remember the person who has died and talk about them. i.e. It should not be taboo to talk about someone because they’ve died, but instead it should be good to share memories.