How true is this!
Why is it that when there are conflicts or disagreements between people, we are always more likely to talk about the other person, and their opinions and actions, rather than actually try and resolve the issues by speaking to the other person.
Talking calmly and with understanding and compassion, allowing each person to express their feelings and opinions, should allow all to understand one another’s feelings and thoughts, and hopefully help resolve the underlying conflict so everyone’s satisfaction.
It’s always good to talk to others, rather than about them!
The Distinct Dot 